To girlfriends
October 16, 2007
“I have girlfriends who are like, healing. We take care of each other. They know when I need to be taken care of.” ~Maggie Gyllenhaal
Ting
Sometimes the elder sister, sometimes the younger one. Words fail me when I sart talking about how much she’s been there for me. Love you.
Jess
Who is always honestly blatant with me, which I’m always thankful for. But it causes me to be honestly blatant with her too, sometimes to a point of shocking myself.
This is a super old photo, Jess. I need more new photos with you.
Ling
The voice of every gathering. Kind and generous soul, and absolutely delightful to be with. Not that your face is not pretty enough, your voice is just… louder. haha.
Jane
Blissfully in love. My saviour in Singapore. I’m really glad that you have found such happiness; it radiates from your smile. (=
Meet up soon, miss your face.
Shar
Oh my, you’re just the person to be with in Uni. We just understand.
And special star appearance..
Louis
The half-girlfriend. My latin cha-cha and rhumba partner. He listens, and he bitches with me as well; a comfort to confide in.
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I was initially very enthusiastic about penning this post, but when I started to write, I realise that I dont have much to say. It’s a deep sense of love that is difficult to be translated into words, nothing I thought of seemed to fit.
Girlfriends who’ve been there; whom we share dirty secrets with; who we buy gifts for whenever we’re overseas; whom we talk till no end.
Pillars of strength when strength fails me.
“You know when I feel inwardly beautiful? When I’m with my girlfriends and we are having a ‘goddess circle’.” ~Jennifer Anniston
October 16, 2007 at 11:43 am
WHY AM I NOT INCLUDED IN THE POST!?!?!?!
October 16, 2007 at 1:19 pm
Through experience, i’ve found that girls tend to make better and truer friends than guys. Guys are usually ‘activity-intensive’ as opposed to girls whom are ‘relationship-intensive’. Guys usually use guys for company whereas girls tend to appreciate the company of girls. There is a world of difference. Wish i was a girl sometimes. Guys tend to bore the crap out of me.
I’m happy for you.
October 16, 2007 at 1:28 pm
why no post delicated for us???? angry. Wat abt bros? onli need sisters now lo.okok…nvm.
aniwae take care huh. life’s tough.
October 16, 2007 at 2:33 pm
Lou – I knew it lor, I knew it!!! You bitch! I wanted to put you in, but dont know you will be ok about it or not. Well, apparently you’re ok, so since you’re already half a girlfriend, you shall star as the star appearance. hahha.
October 16, 2007 at 2:34 pm
Chin – ehh.. bros have to wait la. next post ok.
Tell me about life being tough, I’m really dying in school!!!!!! You take care too, hope your neck’s feeling better.
October 16, 2007 at 2:36 pm
hey edsperience, thanks for that. I dont think girls just appreciate the company of girls la, i think we (I, at least) generally appreciates the company of friends. (=
October 17, 2007 at 9:39 am
OMG Ah Ngia!u’ve got me!
I was about to made a post abt GF…….Gosh!
You’ve beat me to it manz!damnz!it’s actually the recent emails btw u,me,jess n ting tat made me wan to post such a lovely post.
wat made u post this then?
I was fucking LAUGHING loud when i saw Lou!!!!! I was thinking who’s the star appearance manz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!gosh!hahahaha.lol lol.
EXCUSE me!!!!!!!hw to be pretty when u posted the MOST UGLY pic of me!!!!!!!!!!!!wat the F***!!!!
there’s another slimmer and prettier pic of me n u in my hse loz…..hw COME of ALL….u post tat!!!!
arghz……………………………..lol lol lol lol
muackies to post!i feel it deeply in my heart as well.i guess u r really better in expressing thots..sigh.kekekekek.
October 17, 2007 at 1:51 pm
hey ngia, post up the post la! I wanted to post this up cos of the email too!!
Ok la ok, I went to dig up a more presentable photo. I thought the older photo look more.. homely ma. haha. But ya la, I agree that it’s not one of the prettiest. haha.
October 17, 2007 at 4:39 pm
yes, i realised our pictures like retro alr.
i like chou can that picture??!
haha. yeaps.
I can comprehend the multiple emotions and states of mind that seeps thru us when this freak environment we are thrown in tries to consume us over and over again. We’d fight it thru. hugs*
October 17, 2007 at 11:19 pm
BLAHZ!!! Why am i not included in the email huh?? boohoohoo??!!! such a sweet post, i like!!! Yes, i may be blissfully in love but our timings always crash la..thats why no time to meet…not because of wi-win ok..!!! hahaha! love you lots!
October 18, 2007 at 2:08 pm
hugs honey.
we have one thousand and one prettier photos la!!!
is it girlfriend week?? haha
why the sudden email evoke such emotions? haha.
thanxs anyways.
October 18, 2007 at 5:29 pm
SERIOUSLY!! can’t u choose a nicer picture? haha.. or do some editing to the photos? i am such a demanding diva! haha.. anyway i realised we never take any photos during our dance classes.. i am sure it will turn out great la!! wat a waste!!
October 18, 2007 at 11:35 pm
my dearest darling meeeeooww.. Seriously, its either we have too little shots together for u to choose from, or u really bad at picking the better looking ones. but wateva it is..I still love u as deep as the vast blue sea. hehe.. so er xin rite??But i noe u can totally ‘feel’ my love for u!!!
October 19, 2007 at 7:44 am
wah!ah ngia!love u muackies!u really changed into a really nicer n prettier pic can!!!!!!!!!
but i agree…..seriously,seems now,i missed the uglier pic leh…..coz i really have a homely cosy and cuddling feeling when i see the precious one.seems like this pic has lost tat feeling.hahaha
lol…indeed,i think NGia really lacks of pictorial memories of frens!!!!!!!!!!!!!! she’s too busy taking non-living things!hahahaha!Bleahz!
October 20, 2007 at 3:31 pm
Oh my goodness, you all damn choosy!!!
Ngia: I really dont have many individual friends’ photos leh, I realised. Haha. must take more! Summore you all all overseas.. no recent photos lor.
Ting: That photo quite nice wad!
Lou: Ya, I agree that photo is not say very nice, but I dont have alot of photo that’s just of the 2 of us leh. It would have been damn zai to have a photo of us dancing, but that time, we were too shy to take any photo!
Jess: Girlfriends are all very impt ma.. just showing the love. haha.
October 20, 2007 at 4:47 pm
when can we all be togather again?
night outings, window shopping, gossiping, oversea trips, makan….
bring back those days back to me…and bring back my body to me, to me, to me. my body falling out apart
October 21, 2007 at 1:45 am
ok. i also wan to join in the big hoo ha discussion.
Y I DUN SEE AN ENTRY DEDICATED FOR ME? or shd i say… Y AM I NOT INCLUDED IN THE POST?
HMMPH… ANGRY… DUN GIVE U UR LAPTOP CASING ALREADY…
*BLEAH*
October 21, 2007 at 8:25 am
MEI LI MAO!!!!!!!!!!
UNLESS u wan to admit u r half girlish!!!!!! then u get to be on this posting with sunshine!hahahahahah
LAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Chinny man.dun give up on urself,neither will we!thou everyone’s just in their own world,everyone is always there foreach other when needed,just reach out hand n ask for help.everyone is busy,bt sure free to help out everyone in all ways they can!
b strong!i am behind u!hehehehehehe.
October 22, 2007 at 4:39 pm
Haha yes yes, this is rather happening. Now i know what to post to get everyone started! haha.
Vin: Your turn will come la, be patient. And I still want my laptop case!
Chin: Be strong. I cant say much, cos I dont think they’ll help, but you’ve got to find strength within yourself. Get through the first year, and things should be easier from there. (=